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Alex Emma Lee
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"My heart is heavy. I am in NY and went to your Facebook page to send a message to see if we could get together. There, I learned about Alex Emma Lee. I have tears in my eyes. I wish I could give you a hug. I remember years ago when I went to your apartment and met Alex Emma. There were a couple of new pennies on the floor. Alex Emma called them 'shinies'. That always stayed with me. It made me think of beautiful, bright loving people who touch others deeply -- like you. I know Alex Emma was and will always be a shiny. I am sending love, Deanna."
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My son Ian was remembering the time a few years back when Deanna invited us to her rooftop on a steamy summer evening. While Deanna, Luca and I sipped pinot grigio and admired the stunning view of Central Park, Ian and Emma splashed in and out of a plastic wading pool, totally absorbed in play, laughing and chasing each other, talking non-stop. They truly enjoyed each other’s company.
Emma had such expressive eyes. When she spoke, especially when she was making a point, they grew wider and wider, drawing you into what she had to say. . .
I think Emma knew that she had the power to convey a lot with her eyes...annoyance, interest, mischief, anger, intelligence, vulnerability, intensity, love. I hope Deanna always remembers what it was like when Emma looked at her with love.
My daughter Isabella was in tears as she thought aloud about how hard it is for most people to imagine what a person feels like when what they see in the mirror every day does not reflect what they believe themselves to be, to really, truly be. I don’t know if this was Emma’s experience or not but it is painful to think that she may have come to feel that she was not at home in her own self.
Deanna has a fierce kind of love and reserved the very best of it for Emma. As a single working mother, she managed demanding, creative professional roles with Emma’s school applications, planning for family vacations (including Rome two years ago), martial arts, theatre, community service, Chinese new year celebrations, birthday parties, music lessons, pug walks and so much more. It is heartbreaking to see that fierce, beautiful bond broken.
WHAT SONG BEST CAPTURES ALEX'S SPIRIT?
TELL US ABOUT A TIME THAT ALEX MADE YOU LAUGH …
laughing attack length: 10 minutes
laughing attack severity out of 10: 10/10
For privacy reasons, lets call him nick. nick was a friend of me, emmas, and clares. i was the only one in 7th grade so i always got to our little friend group late at snack time. but when i did arrive i was greeted with a laughing attack which i soon would be inspired to join in. emma always updated things about the little friend group and one day, i came down later then usual, but when i did come down, the table had a red stain on the wood, a nick with two pieces of paper shoved up his nose, and emma, oh emma, i couldve heard her laugh all the way from the seventh floor! but the laugh was an amazing, loud, beautiful and contagious laugh. through her laughter she said, "you know how in anime people have nosebleeds like this?-" and she jerked back her head as if she was hit in the head by a forceful stone. then she continued "well you know how i ship nick and clare? and you know how nick TOTALLY has a crush on clare? well i just asked nick if he had a crush on clare and he just had an anime nosebleed!!!!" she broke down in laughter and taking all of that info in, i started laughing as well. emma and i were on the floor laughing at five minutes and stayed there on the ground for the next five, laughing. our. heads. of. it was absolutely hilarious even though i could understand how nick wouldve had a nose bleed, emma probably had asked him in that confident, knowing tone that even if he didnt like clare, just her asking it in that amazing convincing tone wouldve made anyone like clare.