I think Stuart would want to be remembered as someone who made the world a better, more tolerant, more loving, more optimistic place. I'm not sure he would most want to be remembered as a member of one of Columbia's secret societies, but he was one...and I unearthed an article I wrote about the Nachems and Sachems that quotes Stuart and had a photo of him. Here's the link--the online version doesn't have a photo, but I unearthed the print version, which did. I remember taking that photo--about 10 of us including me, Stuart, and a photographer from the New York Times in an elevator in Furnald.
http://www.nytimes.com/1984/04/29/nyre/.../-tap-seniors.html