Well, if you were able to ask Terry this question he'd say he was most proud of being married to me. I happen to know that he was also proud that he quit smoking, that he transplanted our trees (that we grew from saplings), that we saved money (to buy a nice tv and fireplace), when he mowed our lawn diagonally (so it looked more professionally done), etc. It didn't take much for Terry to be amazed and want people to be proud of him. He thrived in an environment full of love, praise, routine, and commitment. He was proud to have a family. It was so important to him.