I guess there were a few...from the time he was a little boy...I knew he was "different". I just didn't know what it was until later in life. I feel my divorce from his father was the first of many moments. There were several more during his growing up years.... There was the time he was having "identity crisis"...which I feel had a lot to do with his last week on this earth. But on a happier life-changing moment for Sterling was the day his sister, Ashley, got married. He was so excited to be an Usher and being able to wear a Tuxedo for the first time!! He had a ball and danced the night away. What a joy to watch him and watching his sister as this was her biggest life-changing moment I'm sure... I love her so much and so did Sterling.